Friday, October 16, 2020

My Supports

 

          As I reflect on what the term "support" means to me, support means encouraging someone or helping him/her succeed. I firmly believe that we can make a difference in the world with little support, encouragement, and guidance.


My Parents:

       My parents were always my motivational force; they always supported me and taught me to differentiate right from wrong. My parents ever desired my sibling and me to be the best; they have played a significant role in shaping my life.

 

In the photo, the girl sitting in the middle is me.



And look, this is me now. Throughout this journey in life, my parents inspired me. They made me a confident individual who would have been lost without them.



My Husband: 

        A supportive husband is an absolute requirement for professional women.

He is something she looks for, and when she finds him, she marries him.   

                                                                                           (Alice.S Rossi)

        My husband is my world. He is always there when I need him. He guides me, encourages me, motivates me, and inspires me. He always says, 'pursue your dream, no matter what happens.'



         To get my Master's degree in Early childhood is my dream, as well as my passion.

 

Challenge:

        Life is full of challenges. I must say that I am lucky that I am blessed with good people who motivate me not to give up and encourage me to achieve my goal. I always think big, positive, and sound. I set short term goals to achieve long term goals. As my mother always says to us, "never complain about the challenges, they are there to polish you, and one day you will overcome them."

 Religion: Religion is my strength. I believe that God does not burden anyone with a load, which is more than his/her capacity. God is too generous to burden people with what they cannot bear. So, I will meet all challenges with the support of God.

        My support system gets me through the day or the week, or even the year. They keep me going, and they're an essential part of my life. Everyone needs that; I am lucky that I have my supports.

Saturday, October 3, 2020

My connections to Play

 


          I was born and raised in Pakistan.  When I was young, I did not have any fancy gadgets or expensive toys. 

          I loved nature, and my parents were my big supporter and teachers. When I used to go for a long walk with my parents,  I asked many questions? Like how and why season changes? Why clouds move, and how are they formed? Why are stars seen at night and not at noon? How plants grow. My parents used to explain and answer my question thoroughly. 

           When I was young, my mother used to ask me to make bracelets of flowers; she used to give flowers and asked me if I could count flowers. I used to get busy in counting flowers and making bracelets.


 

          I was also a tomboy, used to play in the streets in front of my house. Boys used to be my play partners.



          The above photograph is showing me in my childhood. Do you see the sparks in my eyes?

 

          One of my favorite plays was Kancha. Kancha is played with marbles.



Another play which I liked most is below.



          At school, I loved playing tag, hide and seek, and especially cricket. 



         Time has changed. Electronic gadgets have taken the place of physical play. I do not see the children in the fields and parks now in the evening. They sit around the TV and watch games.

         Our childhood has moved indoors. Our children spend half the time outdoor in play what they used to do two decades back. A Kaiser Family Foundation research shows that children are spending seven hours daily on electronic gadgets. This excessive play with electronic devices is taking a toll in the shape of child obesity and lack of creativity. Even Steve Jobs, former Apple chief executive officer, was worried at this exposure of children to gadgets.

         I am sorry to admit that play has gone out of my busy life. I am no more physically active. When  I look back to my childhood days, they were the golden days of my life. I miss those golden days of play.