Relationship Reflection

           My mother

           My mother is my mentor, my friend, my coach, and whatnot. She inspired me for this Master of Science in Early Childhood Studies. She lives eight thousand miles away from me in Pakistan. She talks to me daily. All my tension, mental agony, and anxiety go away when I talk to her. 

My immediate family

            This is my immediate family. I may rely on them for any matter. The boy in the front is my grandson- a highschooler. You will find me just behind my grandson. Sitting by my side is my husband. On the right side, you will find my daughter-in-law, my son, and my granddaughter.

My kids  

  The children become very friendly with me. They love me, and I love them. But when they graduate in pre-k and leave me, I always miss them.

My friend, my sweetheart

            She is Lora Anderson, my friend, my sweetheart. We lived together for a considerable time in Salina, Kansas. I could call her for any matter- as small as changing bulb in my garage or as big as relocation from Salina to Manhattan. She had been a telephone away, just inform her and she will be there for your help. When worried, call her; she is there to accompany you to Starbucks or Yougurtnee- our favorite entertainment points in Salina.

Libby Mychajliw

             She was my Director at Early Learning Center in Maryland. She is very organized, very loving, and very helpful. Go to her for any problem, and she will find a solution. She gave me the practical opportunity to learn about Early Childhood.

            I believe that Relationship solidifies with sincerity, unconditional love, and sacrifice. But before that, we need to understand ourselves, and then we need to understand others. We usually judge a person by their behaviors and not by motives. This creates conflict. To have real Relationships, we need to go beyond behavior; we need to understand motives.

            I think that our behavior is like this buoy. This can be seen by everyone. It is tilting, coming back, and then again tilting.

            No one can see the anchor in the water to which this buoy is tied—our motives are like this anchor, which is not visible to anyone, which is not visible even to ourselves. Our Relationship will get strengthened if we could see behind the behavior.